Anonymous Submission: This is the first time I’ve taken photos of my vulva in order to share them. I’ve never been too concerned with how it looked as I was hardly ever sexually active. When that time comes though, I feel like I will be very concerned with showing myself off.
My labia minora are very dark; they’re wrinkled and covered in small bumps when I stretch them out and examine them. And then, the opening to my vagina is then a red/pink. I have quite fair skin so one of only concerns would be about the coloring of my vulva, but looking at this blog I’ve come to realise that this multicolor-ing is perfectly normal!
I’m also concerned about my pubic hair. I don’t know how to style it, it seems that it goes into the creases of my labia and I think it would hurt to remove it. I don’t really want to remove it unless my partner wanted me to.
My last concern is to my anus, which seems to have a hernia but I’m not certain. I feel too embarrassed to explain what it is to potential future lovers and I don’t know myself. Like the pubic hair, I don’t think I’d want to fix it unless my partner wanted me to..
I came to the conclusion that while there is a possibility that my vulva is unattractive, it doesn’t actually cause me any disgust or discomfort and for that reason alone I think that however it (and other vulvas alike) looks shouldn’t matter!
1) It does its job, and
2) it’s just skin. Seeing other people with colourful vulvas or non-pornstar genitals makes me feel proud to be apart of this spectrum of vulva diversity! Viva la pussy pride!
And lastly, thank you for this blog xx
I’m glad you decided to contribute to my blog, because someone needs to reassure you that you’re normal and beautiful. Your vulva is gorgeous, and the coloration from lighter pink to darker tips is delightful. You’ve nothing to worry about.
How you decide to style your pubic hair is entirely up to you, regardless of what a sexual partner might want.
The small bumps you’re mentioning are probably Fordyce spots, and most people have them - it’s very common and normal.
Well I don’t know a lot about anuses but that could be a small hemorrhoid. I don’t know if it’s anything needing to be “fixed”, and embarrassing as it is, it might be worth talking to your doctor the next time you go for a check up.
I’m glad that you’re accepting (maybe even beginning to love?) your labia and wanting to spread Pussy Pride. You’re beautiful, and why shouldn’t the world know it? :)