Large Labia Project

Everything has beauty,
but not everyone sees it: Confucius


This blog is all about large labia, and mostly to do with large labia minora. This is a body-positive blog that aims to show that large labia are normal and beautiful. It provides support for those who feel insecure, self-conscious, victimised or vilified about their large labia. This blog is inclusive, and all people with labia are welcome, regardless race, age, sexual preference or gender. Submissions are encouraged, but photos showing nudity are only allowed from people 18+ please.


NOTE: This blog shows photos depicting detailed genital nudity in a non-sexual setting, and contains written content with adult themes.


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Submission: I have never thought of my genitals as beautiful. My lips are wrinkly and my labia resembles roast beef at times. Throughout high school, boys said I was”gappy” and made me feel anything but sexy.

After high school, I developed Dyspareunia [painful sex - Emma] and I was lucky if a penis would even go into my vagina. I went to physical therapy to strengthen my vaginal and pelvic muscles and used dilators to help my problem. It still seems impossible to have sex without any lubrication.

I am now 22 and 6 weeks pregnant and I am a little concerned about pushing a baby out of my vagina.

Hi Emma, ​​as you can see I possess an unusual feature in my vagina, it has this little piece of skin that looks like a channel, I thought was the urethra but I’m not sure you could tell me?


It’s not your urethra. That’s where urine comes out when you pee. The urethra is located underneath the clitoris and above the vaginal opening. To me that looks like it’s part of your vaginal corona (hymen) or maybe a skin tag. They aren’t anything to worry about, unless it’s causing you pain.

As with any part of your body, if you notice unusual growths, lumps and bumps or changes in your vulval skin, then it’s a good idea to see your doctor.

Emma

Email Submission: Dear Emma, I seem to have the sort of vulva many of the women on your blog describe wanting: small inner lips that don’t show. And, well… I think mine is kinda boring! I wish my inner lips were large and sexy and wavy like so many of the ladies on your blog. I wish they spread out like orchid petals, or beautiful butterfly wings.

Where did I get the idea that large labia are sexy? From PORN! I had no idea until recently that women were paying for surgery to have nondescript little lips that hide instead of keeping their gorgeous frilly lips that beckon to be caressed, kissed, and tasted. 

<shrugs> We all want what we don’t have, but what we do have is pretty fucking awesome. Thank you for the blog.

Anyway, here goes. Several shots of what my nether lips look like. BTW I’m 37.

Email Submission: ”I do look at myself in the mirror and I feel like boys/girls will think I look gross or “wrinkly” down there, because of my labia. I do look at the photos you post and I like other womens’ vaginas, just not my own. I cannot picture my vagina as beautiful and it has kept me from a comfortable sex life. I’m 19, turning 20 and no man has ever seen my pussy in person, because I only do things in the dark. I want to be comfortable with my boyfriend, because I know confidence is quite attractive.

I can’t believe I’m sending these. I’m very self-conscious about my labia, but this took a lot of courage to send these. You may post them on your blog :) I hope I can learn to be more comfortable with my body. Hopefully, this will boost my confidence and show me that I’m beautiful in my own way :)

I do sit in front of the mirror looking at the details of my lips and clit and hole. It does fascinate me, but I don’t know how men/women would feel.”


Ok, for everyone else’s benefit, we’ve already talked by email, and I’m glad you’re feeling more confident. Your vulva is really beautiful and you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Your boyfriend will adore them. Just trust that he loves you for who you are, but frankly with a beautiful, normal vulva like yours you have nothing to worry about.

Emma xox

(via pussyprideprojects)

Email Submission: Hi Emma! These are my lady bits. I used to hate them, and stop anyone who would try to put their hand down my panties. I longed for surgery, and sometimes felt like just cutting them off with a pair of scissors.

I’m now almost 22 years old, and have finally learned to love them. It all changed when I became sexually active, and realised that no sane man actually cares or thinks they are as large as we perceive them to be. I’ve even gotten compliments about the look of my lady bits, and some guys haven’t been able to stop cuddling them.

It saddens me to see girls who feel like they need to surgically alter their labia, and even worse when they have parents och partners who think they should. No one should care about the look of your genitals, if they are healthy and working as intended. If you feel like having labiaplasty, would you do the same thing on your face if you didn’t like your nose? No, you would probably learn to live with it.

Stop destroying your beautiful lady gardens and realise that they are not only for decoration, but fill several functions.

Thank you Emma for this amazing project, I wish every girl in the world could see your site.

Email Submission: Dear Emma, I’m turning to your blog, because no other website, blog or forum on the internet can help. When I ask around on the internet, it seems like nobody understands what a large clithood is. I hate my large hood, it looks ugly and no matter how hard me or my boyfriend try, I can’t have an orgasm. I blame all the extra skin. I feel like I’m the only girl in the world with this problem, because I know my friends don’t have this problem, the exes of my boyfriend didn’t have this and even my sisters and mother don’t have this. It makes me so angry and I feel so lonely. I’m 19 years old.


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In my opinion your clitoral hood looks fine, attractive, totally normal, and not particularly large.

A high percentage of people with a vulva have difficulty having an orgasm, and sadly about 10% never orgasm. You’re far from being alone. It’s possible your clit hood plays a role in your anorgasmia, as could your current mental state, stress, medication etc. There are lots of advice websites about this you can refer to. I recommend that you visit www.dodsonandross.com for advice on masturbation and orgasm, which may also help. You may also benefit from visiting your doctor, and/or sex therapist.

Emma

Email Submission: Still love the blog! Btw to me it’s actually kind of nice to be reblogged by porno blogs because usually I would think that nobody would find my Labias sexually attractive. But I understand that’s not what you want for your blog and other submitters probably feel the same. Just my opinion!

Email Submission: I’m 28, have had 1 baby who is now 26 months, and am 6 months pregnant with the next.

During early puberty, my mom took me to her gynecologist to get my labia checked. She was afraid I had hurt myself and that’s why they looked they way they do. Before that I hadn’t thought anything about it.

He offered to “fix” them whenever I had a baby.

When I delivered my daughter, a doctor I had never met before was on call. I ended up with a lot of stitches, but I was terrified that he had somehow thought they had torn more and stitched them where it didn’t belong!

Since I am pregnant again, they have gotten larger and I have to wear panties to keep them from getting pinched in my pants when I walk. 

Like ears, nose etc. they are mine alone, and I accept them. I do think they’re ugly, but my husband loves them, so it’s ok. Accept yourselves, ladies, God made us exactly how we are with a purpose!

Email Submission: 19. Just remember to love yourself.

Anonymous Submission: Hi Emma! First of all thank you for all, what you’re doing there, you’re golden! xx

I think, that I’ve some infectious problems. I’m 20 and still a virgin. On my labia minora are many spots. It’s look like pimples, but I can’t squeeze them out. Also both sides of my labia minora are too thick i think :( is it something infectious or? And should I go to a doctor to show it? I’m too shy :(

Thank you xoxo


Don’t worry, it’s not a disease, not an STI, not infectious and they are totally normal. They are called Fordyce spots and almost everyone has them. They are oily glands (called sebaceous glands) like you have with hair follicles. They can appear white or creamy in colour, and are absolutely nothing to worry about.

Your labia look fine, you have no need to worry.

Emma

Email Submission: I’m 18 and I’ve been self conscious about my labia minora for about 4 years. My friends often referred to enlarged labia as “meat curtains” or “hanging ham” which made me feel very upset, and I felt like I had to join in with saying the derogatory term to mock enlarged labia minora. I went to my doctor when I was 15 and she referred me to a gynaecologist. The gynaecologist told me I could not have labiaplasty until I was 18 because I may still be “developing” in that area; she gave me nappy rash cream to sooth the rubbing against my panties and an anti-inflammatory gel to reduce any swelling/inflammation on my inner labia. I was disappointed that I could not get the labiaplasty, and I’m considering getting it now.

But 9 months ago I met my long distance boyfriend, we got very close and I told him how upset I was over my enlarged labia, he told me it didn’t matter to him because he loves me and they’ll be fun in the bedroom, but I’m still worried that once he actually sees my vagina he will not like it, and will avoid oral sex.

I really want to become more confident with my inner labia but I can’t help but feel they’re too wrinkly and saggy. I just want to be considered normal and not a “meat curtain”. It has helped me coming to your blog. Thank you!

please post my vagina. and btw i&#8217;m 23 years old.

please post my vagina. and btw i’m 23 years old.

Email Submission: “I’d always been extremely uncomfortable and self-conscious about my labia, until the day that I met my boyfriend. I always thought that they were too “big”, or “puffy”. I had considered having surgery to remove most of them. I started following this blog before I had met him, and I started to gain confidence with myself. Your blog helped me find the courage to put myself out there, and have sex with my boyfriend.

A funny thing happened. The first time we ever had sex, he said; “Oh my, I LOVE your pussy. All I want to do is kiss your lips, and taste you.” Every time we have sex now, he can’t help but compliment it in some way. My biggest insecurity has now turned into one of my biggest pleasures.

Ladies - your vagina isn’t ugly or wrong. You are you - and there’s someone out there who just can’t wait to get their hands on you. :) “
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Oh how I love a success story! Hooray! :) Thanks for writing to share your personal growth experience and of course your fabulously wonderful and delightfully beautiful labia. Oh wow, is there any wonder why your boyfriend reacted the way he did? I’m sure there are millions of guys (and more than a few girls) out there who would be green with envy. Thank God you never had labiaplasty surgery!!! It’s so awesome to read how you realised that all of your fears were unwarranted and were able to then get on with enjoying a happy sex life and boosted self-esteem. What a great outcome!

our labia-positive message is exactly what other girls need to hear. I’m grateful that you took the brave and selfless step to contribute to this pussy-pride project. I know how confronting and nerve-racking it is to make yourself so publicly vulnerable, so you really need to be applauded for doing this today. You’re amazing. Thank you!

Emma
xo

Email Submission: It is amazing what a little research can do for one’s confidence! I find myself wanting to display my pussy for all to see because it is big and beautiful!

Anonymous Submission: Hi there! I’m a 28, genderfluid person. All my life I always wondered why my labia looked the way they do. Even when I was little. I noticed they were big.
I used to seriously consider labiaplasty. Because they’d fall out of my underwear and get caught in tampon applicators. I don’t wear tampons anymore. And I wear underwear lower on my body to accommodate my lips. I wear my thongs lower in front and high in the back so that i don’t fall out of them. Thongs were not made with large labia in mind. (If you do this, go up one size. trust me, you will thank me later!)
I used a chapstick tube to show their size. When I’m aroused, my clit sticks out pretty far. I’ve never really looked at my labia when I wasn’t aroused, so seeing how frilly it is was a little bit of a surprise. My clit hood is really long. It always has been. 
I haven’t shaved in a couple of months. I have sensitive skin so I can’t shave as often as I like. But I don’t mind. I DO have to keep the hair shaved clean between the majora and minora because it can irritate and cause itching and rashes… Yup. Hair irritation can cause rashes. Its annoying as hell.
Anyways. For a long time, I was so self conscious of them. Sex was always difficult. And I always thought people would think less of me if they saw my lips were so long. I didn’t stretch them out but they are a good three or four inches long. I’m now almost 29, and I love them. I now have no shame about them. I love my lips. They are fun to tug on. And not even in a sexual way (well that too but that’s not the point). Its just skin to me. And I like the texture of them. It took me a long time to come to grips with how they looked. And I hope that when people find this blog they learn that all labia are different, and that they aren’t alone with having weird looking/long/short/small/big/etc… Labia look weird no matter what, y’all. And if someone can’t appreciate the fact that you even let them LOOK at your gorgeous flower, then they don’t need the privilege of touching it. :) 

Anonymous Submission: Hi there! I’m a 28, genderfluid person. All my life I always wondered why my labia looked the way they do. Even when I was little. I noticed they were big.

I used to seriously consider labiaplasty. Because they’d fall out of my underwear and get caught in tampon applicators. I don’t wear tampons anymore. And I wear underwear lower on my body to accommodate my lips. I wear my thongs lower in front and high in the back so that i don’t fall out of them. Thongs were not made with large labia in mind. (If you do this, go up one size. trust me, you will thank me later!)

I used a chapstick tube to show their size. When I’m aroused, my clit sticks out pretty far. I’ve never really looked at my labia when I wasn’t aroused, so seeing how frilly it is was a little bit of a surprise. My clit hood is really long. It always has been. 

I haven’t shaved in a couple of months. I have sensitive skin so I can’t shave as often as I like. But I don’t mind. I DO have to keep the hair shaved clean between the majora and minora because it can irritate and cause itching and rashes… Yup. Hair irritation can cause rashes. Its annoying as hell.

Anyways. For a long time, I was so self conscious of them. Sex was always difficult. And I always thought people would think less of me if they saw my lips were so long. I didn’t stretch them out but they are a good three or four inches long. I’m now almost 29, and I love them. I now have no shame about them. I love my lips. They are fun to tug on. And not even in a sexual way (well that too but that’s not the point). Its just skin to me. And I like the texture of them. It took me a long time to come to grips with how they looked. And I hope that when people find this blog they learn that all labia are different, and that they aren’t alone with having weird looking/long/short/small/big/etc… Labia look weird no matter what, y’all. And if someone can’t appreciate the fact that you even let them LOOK at your gorgeous flower, then they don’t need the privilege of touching it. :)