Email Submission: “I’d always been extremely uncomfortable and self-conscious about my labia, until the day that I met my boyfriend. I always thought that they were too “big”, or “puffy”. I had considered having surgery to remove most of them. I started following this blog before I had met him, and I started to gain confidence with myself. Your blog helped me find the courage to put myself out there, and have sex with my boyfriend.
A funny thing happened. The first time we ever had sex, he said; “Oh my, I LOVE your pussy. All I want to do is kiss your lips, and taste you.” Every time we have sex now, he can’t help but compliment it in some way. My biggest insecurity has now turned into one of my biggest pleasures.
Ladies - your vagina isn’t ugly or wrong. You are you - and there’s someone out there who just can’t wait to get their hands on you. :) “
Oh how I love a success story! Hip hip hooray! :) Thanks for writing to share your personal growth experience and of course your fabulously wonderful and delightfully beautiful labia. Oh wow, is there any wonder why your boyfriend reacted the way he did? I’m sure there are millions of guys (and more than a few girls) out there who would be green with envy. Thank God you never had labiaplasty surgery!!! It’s so awesome to read how you realised that all of your fears were unwarranted and were able to then get on with enjoying a happy sex life and boosted self-esteem. What a great outcome!
our labia-positive message is exactly what other girls need to hear. I’m grateful that you took the brave and selfless step to contribute to this pussy-pride project. I know how confronting and nerve-racking it is to make yourself so publicly vulnerable, so you really need to be applauded for doing this today. You’re amazing. Thank you!