I love my vagina, I love my labia minora, and I love playing with them. It looks pretty symmetrical but the right is actually much longer then the left. I’m so afraid to let anyone see it though! I’m about to turn 19 and a virgin. I’ve never had a long term boyfriend so I don’t know if things would have been different if I had, but in all shorter term relationships, I never let any guy go down there! If I did have sex and a guy didn’t say anything to me (because most just want to get it in) I feel like they would just be thinking the worst things the entire time! Like just thinking my vagina is disgusting. I also absolutely hate shaving so I get bikini waxes. I really want to start getting Brazilians but I feel so uncomfortable! It’s not about some stranger being like up my vagina just rather her basically touching my labia and probably thinking the same terrible things. I’m so scared its gonna end up being in the way of some place that needs to be waxed and the waxing person just awkwardly has to move it.
Anyway, I just wanted to share my story! I don’t think I would ever actually get labiaplasty but as any curious teenager, I looked at websites and pictures on the internet. That’s when I came across your blog! I laughed at the beginning. Like who in their right mind would ever start a blog like this. But as I began reading the stories and posts from girls and women all over the world, I realized how amazing this site actually is. You have truly made an impact on so many lives and I think that is something to be extremely proud of. I always knew I was normal. But this site just confirms it and somehow makes me feel better about myself. I will probably always be insecure about this but there are a lot of other parts of my body that I love. And I think that’s what we all need to focus on. Because let’s face it, who isn’t insecure about something.
Thanks so much for sharing your gorgeous vulva. I’m so glad you found this site and stopped laughing enough to see how valuable it is to build awareness among others and yourself. Just to ease your mind, your vulva is perfectly normal, it’s appearance is very common, asymmetry is close to being the norm, and any guy lucky enough to get into your pants, let alone your first, will love them and will appreciate the privilege. As for waxing, believe me there’s nothing those beauticians haven’t seen before, and like your gyno they couldn’t care less.
Oh and whoever said I was in my right mind? LOL.
Thanks again for sharing. You’re helping other girls with insecurities just by being here.