Large Labia Project

Everything has beauty,
but not everyone sees it: Confucius


This blog is all about large labia, and mostly to do with large labia minora. This is a body-positive blog that aims to show that large labia are normal and beautiful. It provides support for those who feel insecure, self-conscious, victimised or vilified about their large labia. This blog is inclusive, and all people with labia are welcome, regardless of race, age, sexual preference or gender. Submissions are encouraged, but photos showing nudity are only allowed from people 18+ please.


NOTE: This blog shows photos depicting detailed genital nudity in a non-sexual setting, and contains written content with adult themes.


WARNING: If you have a blog that mainly contains and reblogs porn, DO NOT FOLLOW this blog and DO NOT REBLOG any posts from it. Otherwise you will be blocked and reported for harassment.


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Asker Anonymous Asks:
This blog and your breast blog are like a bible to me. I check them everyday because I just love what you're doing!
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

I hope they continue to be helpful for you. Thanks for writing :)

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
THANK YOU FOR THE HYMEN POST I THOUGHT THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH MINE BUT I SAW ONE THAT LOOKED LIKE MINE ON YOUR BOARD THING AND I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER THANK YOU
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Hooray! Mission accomplished :) I’m really glad that you know you’re ok. Thank you for writing to let me know.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
When I was really young (6 or 7) I started masturbating, not knowing really it was uncommon at that age, but as I got older I realized one of my inner lips had stretched longer than the other one and I've recently come to accept it. But I also have LOTS of "hymenal tags" or excess tissue all around my hymen and urethra that are somewhat long and I'm wondering if that's particularly common to have extra tissue since I've not seen it on any diagrams or photos on here either
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Don’t worry, having one lip longer than the other is perfectly normal (mine are like that). It’s not due to stretching or from masturbation. It’s to do with your genes. Your body was meant to be this way.

Check out my last post to see examples of hymens, hymnal tags, and the myriad appearances they can have. You sound pretty normal to me.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Off topic but I trust your opinion, my boyfriend came in me about 3 weeks ago and lately I've had like brown discharge, there's no scent to it it's just brown and thick. I googled and it's early sign of pregnancy ? Is this true or is something else wrong. He have me chlymidia about 3 months ago but we treated it maybe it didn't go away ? Please help me.
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

If you’re worried that you might be pregnant or have an STD then see a doctor and get tested. Emma

I posted this to my other body-positive blog www.ourbreasts.org, but it’s just as useful for all the people with breasts who visit the Large Labia Project too.

Emma

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http://www.gofundme.com/LargeLabiaProject

My blog has simple needs, but it does have annual expenses including maintaining it’s URL, subscription fees for running surveys, research, website layout, artwork etc. Plus I devote many hours to my sites, often at the expense of my day job and my pay!

To help keep it running, and providing the level of support and information that many people have come to rely upon, I’m asking for small donations from the many visitors and contributors to the site. All monies raised will be applied directly to help continue the work of the Large Labia Project.

Please help by donating - simply click on this link http://www.gofundme.com/LargeLabiaProject, or click the GoFundMe or direct PayPal buttons in the blog’s sidebar.

I appreciate your support.

Emma

If you’re menstruating right now then I invite you submit photos of your vulva showing how you look at this time of your month.

Some people are offended by the thought that people with vulvas get their period, and the mere sight of a tampon string, or even the idea menstrual blood is gross, eww and should be totally hidden away. We don’t live in the dark ages, so I think it’s time to show that having your period isn’t something to be ashamed about. After all, it happens every month for decades. It’s reality for 50% of the population.

So if you’re having your period then please submit photos of your vulva, whether you have large labia or small. Proudly show a tampon string, or even menses, it’s entirely up to you.

Email me at largelabiaproject@gmail.com and I will post them anonymously for you.

Emma

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
I used to think my labia were dirty because they're not pink, so I'd scrub and scrub and scrub them until they were sore, thinking that I just had some serious dirt issues despite my good hygiene or that I had a stain of some sort. I mostly watch home made porn, but I still didn't see many, if any, labia like mine on white girls, so it wasn't until I found this blog that I realized how normal it is for labia to be darker and not pink. Thank you so much for helping people discover the truth.
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

I’m really glad you now know the truth and can be happy about your normal vulva :)

Emma

Email Submission: Hi there, I found your blog by chance, and I wanted to share some photos of my “wedding tackle” to let the other ladies know they have nothing to fear. I’ve known since I was young that we were all different. Maybe it’s my scandanavian ancestry, maybe it’s something else… But I’ve always had large inner labia, and I’ve never once been ashamed of it! In fact, my ex husband (RIP, he passed from cancer a few years ago) he LOVED it, as it gave him a “handle” so to speak for when he went down on me… Being able to pull my lips apart, exposed my clit and allowed him full access to please me. For what it’s worth, I wanted to share. Btw, I’ve had two kids and I’m 38! 

Email Submission: Hello! I’d felt self conscious about my labia all my life. Even when I was in a 7 year long relationship and my boyfriend loved how I looked and was crazy about my entire body, any time he looked at “her” I felt embarrassed - I’d always thought it didn’t look normal.
I’ve only just recently started feeling happier about my body and started appreciating the beauty in all of my curves, and blogs like this one are amazing to show women how real vaginas are supposed to look like. We are beautiful and we will be loved just as we are. Porn labias just aren’t natural and it took me ages to realise that.
I’d like this submission to be anonymous, though one day people will be able to see the human body as I do - as pure art!, and on that day there will be no need for hiding.
​Thanks! xxx​
Thanks so much for your submission, and I’m so glad that you’re feeling more positively about your labia. 
But I completely disagree with your statement that “porn labias just aren’t natural.” Actually you’re wrong and I’ve proven that time and time again. Look at the nominees and winners of the 2013 AVN Awards for Female Performer of the Year and Best New Starlet.
Emma

Email Submission: Hello! I’d felt self conscious about my labia all my life. Even when I was in a 7 year long relationship and my boyfriend loved how I looked and was crazy about my entire body, any time he looked at “her” I felt embarrassed - I’d always thought it didn’t look normal.

I’ve only just recently started feeling happier about my body and started appreciating the beauty in all of my curves, and blogs like this one are amazing to show women how real vaginas are supposed to look like. We are beautiful and we will be loved just as we are. Porn labias just aren’t natural and it took me ages to realise that.

I’d like this submission to be anonymous, though one day people will be able to see the human body as I do - as pure art!, and on that day there will be no need for hiding.

​Thanks! xxx​


Thanks so much for your submission, and I’m so glad that you’re feeling more positively about your labia.

But I completely disagree with your statement that “porn labias just aren’t natural.” Actually you’re wrong and I’ve proven that time and time again. Look at the nominees and winners of the 2013 AVN Awards for Female Performer of the Year and Best New Starlet.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Hello :3 My labia are very uneven and I've been looking at all of the pictures on this blog, and I have never seen a vagina like mine. on one side the inner labia is very long (much longer than any on this blog), and on the other side it is very small and doesn't show when I stand up. I'm afraid that I will never get a boyfriend because they have never seen labia like mine before :(
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

I think you’re putting the cart before the horse there. Do you think the process of finding a boyfriend is by showing guys your vulva? Having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is about whether you actually like the person, have mutual interests and share experiences, have (non-genital) physical attraction etc. It doesn’t hinge on what your genitals look like. If it does then you’ve got a strange idea of what relationships are about. Would you reject a guy if one of his testicles hangs lower than the other (they usually do) or if he had a long foreskin, or if his penis had a bend in it, or if he was average sized (3” to 5”)?

We’re all unique, but I don’t believe for a moment that your labium is the longest on here or anywhere else. Everyone says that sort of thing. We can’t all have the biggest labia. But even so, why does that matter? Asymmetry is normal, and in fact the norm. Most people have one lip different in some way to the other. It’s not unattractive. It’s not abnormal. It’s just another way that vulvas are unique.

Anonymous Submission: Hi Emma!  I’m 22 and I’ve struggled with large labia and a bigger clitoris since I was 14 years of age. Over the years my inner labia have gotten a little bigger, and I have always been worried about it.  I was just wondering if my one longer inner labia is normal? My boyfriend has never complained about my vulva so I’m grateful for that. 

I’m trying to accept my vulva ad seeing other ladies with lady parts similar to me is helping me to love them! 

I just wanted to say thank you for giving me that little boost of confidence that my lady lips are normal. Thank you for this amazing blog!


Thanks for contributing to my body-positive project. The path to self acceptance isn’t always an easy one, but you’re well on the way. It’s no wonder your boyfriend hasn’t ever said anything bad - because you’re perfectly normal and attractive. What’s not to love? Having labial asymmetry is the norm, and having one labium longer, or differently shaped to the other is absolutely fine. I know, mine are a like that and look a lot like yours! You have nothing to worry about.

I hope you can grow even more in confidence after contributing to my blog.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
hi, im in a LDR with a guy & we're planning on meeting & im really really anxious bc i want to have sex with him but im REALLY insecure about my vulva. when i look at it i honestly cry & i just feel disgusting. i cant begin to explain how insecure i am about it. we're virgins & he watches a lot of porn & im terrified that he'll be grossed out by my abnormal labia. i really love him & he loves me but he's pretty shallow lol. advice? & please dont just say "accept it and leave him if he doesnt"
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Well hmm, taking away an ”accept it and leave him if he doesn’t” reply is a little limiting, because I think that is a valid option. Painful, yes, but less painful than having to live with hating yourself for not having self-respect.

Firstly, why do you think you’re abnormal? I’d be willing to bet a month’s salary that you’re totally normal. Large labia (minora or majora) are normal. Clitoral hoods with lots of skin are normal. Labia minora that are different sizes and shapes, with asymmetry are normal. So are different colours, labia that aren’t pink, labia that are ruffled looking etc etc are all normal. Does that describe you?

Ok then, if he’s into porn then talk to him about the sort of porn he watches. Look at it yourself and see the sort of people he has sexual fantasies about, and the types of vulvas they have. You may be surprised, especially if you don’t look at much porn yourself, to see that there are actresses, performers and models in porn with every possible type of vulvar appearance - including ones that look a lot like yours.

You may be interested to read the posts here that talk about large labia porn. I can show you lots of examples of softcore and hardcore porn sites that have people with labia and vulva of all appearances. There is no such thing as the “perfect porn pussy.”

Now you say he loves you, so talk to him about your insecurities. You’ll have to confront that eventually, so it’s better to discuss your feelings with him in a non-sexual setting, where you have some “distance”, instead of in the stress-laden time when you first get naked together.

You say he loves you but he’s shallow. To me that means he’s judging and not accepting of other people based on his arbitrary criteria of beauty etc. I can’t imagine ever being with someone like that, but I appreciate you have feelings for him. Ask yourself this though, should love mean that you accept someone as they are? I certainly think so. Anyone who said they loved me, but in the same instant was disgusted by the look of my vulva, just proved to me that they were full of shit. Love? No, that’s not love.

Really though he’s more than likely to adore every part of you. Because you’re normal and beautiful and because you’re you! But the fact that you’re so concerned and have doubts, and think he could possibly be disgusted by you tells me that you have a lot of emotional growth ahead of you. First step for you is to start understanding that there’s nothing wrong with you. Hopefully this site can help and be part of that process.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
How long has the large labia project existed? I really appreciate the supportive attitude you consistently demonstrate. Are you a sex educator (yes you are), I mean are you trained as a sex educator or counselor?
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Thanks, I’m glad that you like what I’m doing here. The LLP has been running since January 2012, and the very first post was this picture of my vulva.

I don’t have training in sex education or counseling, though I can see that in my future and a possible career change. My training and experience is in marketing in the corporate world. I’m just opinionated lol. I didn’t start the blog as a “Dear Emma” or sex-advice site but it’s evolved that way. I have learned a few things, and believe I have a fair amount of common sense. I hope other people think so too!

Thanks for writing.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Sorry this is so personal and not what this blog is for. I just really need help. Tonight my boyfriend and I had sex, he used a condom. But he didn't finish and we just cuddled for a bit and he went back to fingering me and blah blah. Well. I think he stuck his dick back in without a condom on but I told him to stop and he pulled out really fast. Could there be a chance of pregnancy even though he didn't cum and it was only inside of me for a maximum of 20 seconds?
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Could there be a chance of pregnancy? Yes. It’s possible for sperm to be present in “pre cum” fluids that come from your boyfriend’s penis. If you’re not using any form of contraceptive then it is possible. It’s a very low risk but there is a chance. There is also a risk, to both of you, of getting an infection from an STD. To be 100% sure you could get tested by a doctor. Whether you do or not is up to you.

Probably of more immediate concern is the relationship with your boyfriend, and why he thought it was acceptable to put his penis back in you without a condom. He knew he wasn’t wearing one. You don’t just forget. And sticking your penis inside someone is a deliberate act. It wasn’t an accident. So why did he try to have unprotected sex with you? One could argue that was assault. Has he pressured you to have sex without a condom before? Does he want to come inside you? If so he needs to respect your wishes and if he goes against them then it should carry consequences.

I think you should do some soul searching and have a serious talk with him.

Emma