Large Labia Project

Everything has beauty,
but not everyone sees it: Confucius


This blog is all about large labia, and mostly to do with large labia minora. This is a body-positive blog that aims to show that large labia are normal and beautiful. It provides support for those who feel insecure, self-conscious, victimised or vilified about their large labia. This blog is inclusive, and all people with labia are welcome, regardless of race, age, sexual preference or gender. Submissions are encouraged, but photos showing nudity are only allowed from people 18+ please.


NOTE: This blog shows photos depicting detailed genital nudity in a non-sexual setting, and contains written content with adult themes.


WARNING: If you have a blog that mainly contains and reblogs porn, DO NOT FOLLOW this blog and DO NOT REBLOG any posts from it. Otherwise you will be blocked and reported for harassment.


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Hi Emma! Just a small story here- I have always been self conscious of my labia. I have always been aware that they are bigger, and have always though I was a total freak. Some unfortunate sexual experiences only perpetrated this myth in my head, and at one point I was so afraid of what my new boyfriend would think of me I wouldn’t even let him see down there! So I decided to post a picture of myself on here. It ended up giving me the confidence to sleep with my new beau (who by the way, loves the way I look), anyway this was all 6 months ago and I decided to snoop my post again. 2 things happened:
1. I had a hard time finding the post- not because of time frames, but because there were literally thousands of pictures that looked like mine! As it turns out my “abnormal” vagina is not only very beautiful but also very common!
2. Almost 300 people liked my post. Yup, my “ugly” vagina had 300 likes! I spend so much time worrying about the opinion of immature people that I didn’t realize that there were people out there that like diversity- a lot of people!

Anyway, I just wanted to let all the girls out there know that you are not weird, or a freak of whatever crazy notion you’ve dreamed up in your head! Your vaginas are all BEAUTIFUL- and probably a lot more common than you think.

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Natural labias are cuter ! :) 

Hey Emma, you incredible woman!

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
Hi! I found this blog a while back, & love it. I've felt shitty about my long labia lately. It's hard to have sex (I've been sexually active for 4 months) & lips fold inside my vagina when my boyfriend thrusts inside me at first. My lips get pushed up inside me, & it hurts so bad that I want to cry & the mood gets ruined. Is that a valid reason to consider a labiaplasty? It takes many tries to get his penis in me, & I have to put it in myself and start slow so it doesn't hurt. What do I do?
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Labiaplasty? Hell no! Your labia are actually an integral part of your sexual system and all those sensitive nerve endings add to sexual pleasure and orgasms. I’d suggest always making sure you’re “ready” for sex and naturally lubricated, and also use lots of lube gel. And take it slowly and gently. If you need to spread and hold your apart labia first before he enters you, then do it. There’s nothing wrong with doing that.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
am So embarassed of my labia.. I'm currently pregnant and have to go to the doctor pretty often.. First time he saw it I could clearly see he was shocked but tried to be calm - it hurt so badly! I cried all day! It's much larger than any of those on here, I have a big labia and clitoris.. Both very puffy and thick.. :( Even if my fiance loves my labia and says he does not let me get surgery because my labia can form a heart, I feel extremely unconfident in leggings- whichI LOVE!.. Please help!
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Well that’s surprising and understandably upsetting that your doctor reacted like that. Just because they are a doctor doesn’t mean they can’t be fucktards too. I’d find another doctor that you feel comfortable with. Your labia may be very large (funny how everyone has labia much larger than any of those on here), but that’s hardly going to be a shock or surprise to a doctor that has even a basic understanding of female anatomy.

Ultimately your doctor is just a service provider that you’re paying, so if you’re unhappy with them, get someone else.

If your partner loves them, then frankly who else are you trying to impress?

And for heaven’s sake, would you seriously consider cutting off your genitals just so you can wear leggings? OMG they are just clothes! You’d seriously vandalise your body for that? What do you love more? Sexual sensation and orgasms or your leggings?

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
there's a part of my labia that was discoloured and it was a small section and it always made me feel disgusting, so i promised myself i wouldn't examine it so closely again unless necessary and the discoloured section has gotten bigger and more wrinky:/ this makes me feel so ugly and revolting that i will absolutely never show anyone it. i had a boyfriend of 3 years and he eventually broke up with me because i wouldn't do anything with him. i'm considering labiaplasty now..
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Colour variation in labia is very common, for example having “splotches” of pinks and browns, like freckles, or a darker edge to the labia and lighter inside. That’s normal, so put labiaplasty out of your mind.

But if you have any significant or rapid changes to skin colour, texture etc anywhere on your body then it’s a good idea to have it looked at by your doctor.

It’s also a good ide to talk to your doctor about your feelings towards your labia, and how it’s affecting your sex life. Not with labiaplasty in mind, but rather getting yourself some strategies to help you overcome those feelings and understad that you’re actually pretty normal.

Emma

This is an interesting small study of Greek adolescents (10-18yo) seeking labiaplasty, and their views about their perceived “abnormal” labia. Download the PDF article here (3 pages, 1.2MB)

There is a wide variety in the appearance of normal female external genitalia. Nevertheless a specific prototype is promoted by the media, leading to a false sense that all other appearances are abnormal. As adolescents become sexually aware at an earlier age, most of them are worried about the appearance of their genitalia, especially when labia minora protrude beyond labia majora.”

Lina Michala, Sofia Koliantzaki & Aris Antsaklis (First Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Athens, Alexandra Hospital, Athens, Greece), Published in Journal of Psychosomatic Obstetrics & Gynecology, 2011

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Email Submission: “Hi Emma (: These are a few pictures of my labia.I am 19 and your blog really helped me be more comfortable in my own skin. I was quite embarrassed when I was intimate with boyfriend knowing how I look. My right labia is longer than my left and I have a lot of skin on my clit hood which all including my labia is darker than any other skin on my body. My lips are fat too. Is there any way to lighten down there naturally?”
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Thanks for writing and it’s great to hear that the blog has helped you. You still have a way to go though in truly accepting that your vulva is awesome, which it is! With luck you’ll find being on the blog to be empowering. Lots of girls find it to be a cathartic experience.
Your labia really are pretty and there’s nothing to be concerned about. Having darker labia is normal too. Mine are asymmetrical and dark, so I know what I’m talking about. About 30% of all Caucasian women have labia they report as being brown/grey/purple/black and the majority of women have labia darker than the surrounding skin. Girls with darker skinned racial backgrounds tend to have even darker labia. So stop worrying, because you’re normal. I wouldn’t try to lighten your skin. There is absolutely no need.
Emma
xo

Some comments on a recent submission include:

thingsidontgetathome said: “I’d be so happy to be able to feel taste and
fuck that pussy”

lovenjazz said: “Very sexy…Could keep a tongue entertained for a few
hours!”

malexhib said: “large labia are a pleasure to suck”

Comments like this are inappropriate, creepy, sleazy and are unwelcome on this site. Saying what you’d want to do sexually with contributors is inappropriate and unwelcome on this site.

Some contributors may like that, but I know that the majority don’t. And I certainly don’t and will not tolerate them. Comments like that create a hostile environment, where this site aims to create a safe place for women to talk about their insecurities.

I have no ability to remove those comments, other than by blocking the writer. I have no qualms in doing so, and will routinely block people who leave comments like the ones above. I will also name and shame you, so if you’re inclined to be a creeper or a sleazebag, then maybe think twice before spreading your unwelcome thoughts on this site.

Emma

You are awesome for running this blog. I used to be self conscious about my "long" labia when an idiot high school boyfriend said "I've never seen a girl with lips like yours." That person had only seen one other vagina. He was dumb. I love that part of my body now. And I think it's awful that labiaplastys are a thing. Anyways. Thank you for being here.
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:
Wow I'm glad you have this blog for girls. I see the submissions and can't believe how beautiful they are! Girls really need to know they are OK and not to worry. If a guy doesn't like them then they need to tell them to move on because there are plenty of us who love the way they look! :)
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:
Just wanted to pop in and say what you're doing is rad! As a transwoman, I can't contribute to the blog, but you're doing an awesome thing here. Keep being fabulous :D
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:
Asker Anonymous Asks:
How about leaving it to the ladies doing the submitting to decide on who they want to comment- i.e generally and by default keep male/sleazy comments off the site but have a sort of "opt-in" scheme where if someone is submitting their labia and are happy to have men comment on the post in whatever way they please, they can state that in the submission and you publish their permission? I think that's fair and leaves the control in the hands of the woman who is choosing to submit her photo.
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Goid idea, but unfortunately Tumblr, the platform this site uses, doesn’t work that way. Comments are either on or off and it’s a universal setting.

Submission: “Hi, I’m 22 yo, it’s my labia. I’m pretty confused about it. What do you think??”__________________
I think you have a normal looking and very attractive vulva. Nothing to be confused or self-conscious about.
Emmaxo

Submission: “Hi, I’m 22 yo, it’s my labia. I’m pretty confused about it. What do you think??”
__________________

I think you have a normal looking and very attractive vulva. Nothing to be confused or self-conscious about.

Emma
xo

Asker Anonymous Asks:
"Male visitors are welcome, but this isn’t about guys." wow way to go sexist. yeah I guess they don't need education, you don't want to change men's thinking, so let's just shut them off, code the site so that only XX chromosomes can see it, and let men keep on loving the image they see in porn, amirite? jeez
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Oh cry me a river!

My feelings about male opinions on here are very mixed. This site was created to address female anxiety about a female body part. It’s meant to be a safe place for women to share some of their deepest fears and most intimate body parts. It’s not for tittilation. Photos and stories aren’t sexual. They are closer to clinical. It’s not porn. It’s to educate girls and women about what normal female anatomy is. And no, it’s not about men. It’s by women, for women. If men learn something along the way though, then that’s great.

The nature of Tumblr means that anyone can visit and follow - female and male. I know that many site followers are men, and that’s fine. I’m also under no illusions about what most men use this site for. I’ve had both positive and negative feedback from female contributors about the general belief that men will be fapping while visiting the site. Some contributors like the idea and find it validating. Some are turned on. Some are horrified and repulsed. It’s hard to find a balance and make everyone satisfied.

I’m happy to publish occasional male comments. I’m also routinely forced to delete disgusting and idiotic comments, submissions, questions and propositions, all by men. Apart from just being vile and sleazy, it’s also very boring and a waste of my limited time.

Often otherwise positive comments by men are then ruined by them feeling the need to make it about them and talk about their penis. Or by saying overtly sexual or suggestive things which all serves to create a hostile environment for vulnerable women.

So while I agree that having positive reinforcement by men is valuable, in moderation, it is not and will not be the focus of this site. If any man can’t see or appreciate that then they are simply not welcome here. There are plenty of far better sites they can look at while jerking off.

Do men have a right to a voice here? In my opinion, no, they don’t. But they are afforded a privilege, and what I’m trying to do is establish how large that privilege should be.

I have never said in a blanket statement that men aren’t welcome. What I do in moderating comments is try to strike an appropriate balance between female contributions and male opinions. But when I specifically ask for female opinions, and half of the responses are from men, it really annoys me. Mostly because I find stupid or self-obsessed people incredibly irritating, and in cases like this, where I only wanted female thoughts, the fact that guys have the arrogant audacity to say “look at me, me, me, because I’m a man, and I’m making this about what I want, not about what you want” it just speaks volumes. And it really pisses me off.

So areyourite? No, you’re wrong.

Emma