Large Labia Project

Everything has beauty,
but not everyone sees it: Confucius


This blog is all about large labia, and mostly to do with large labia minora. This is a body-positive blog that aims to show that large labia are normal and beautiful. It provides support for those who feel insecure, self-conscious, victimised or vilified about their large labia. This blog is inclusive, and all people with labia are welcome, regardless race, age, sexual preference or gender. Submissions are encouraged, but photos showing nudity are only allowed from people 18+ please.


NOTE: This blog shows photos depicting detailed genital nudity in a non-sexual setting, and contains written content with adult themes.


WARNING: If you have a blog that mainly contains and reblogs porn, DO NOT FOLLOW this blog and DO NOT REBLOG any posts from it. Otherwise you will be blocked and reported for harassment.


Visit My Other Body Positive Blogs
Our Breasts
Real Women's Bodies






Just a reminder that I’m on a sum-purging mission. If you have a porn focused blog, if you have your erect penis or a vagina being fucked as your profile picture, DO NOT follow the Large Labia Project and DO NOT reblog posts from it. You will be blocked and I will report you for harassment.

And generally if you are a male you have no good reason to be here and especially no reason to reblog posts. I’m being ruthless in blocking people these days. I’m sick of the creeps and arseholes. Don’t be one of them.

This blog is by someone with a vulva, for people with a vulva. Men, don’t overstep the mark and think this blog has anything to do with you. Visit quietly if you must, but don’t make your presence known or felt. It’s just not welcome.

Emma

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Hey, um my boyfriend and I have been talking about how were both ready to have sex but I'm terrified because he watches porn which I'm okay with but obviously they all have neat labia and I don't and I'm so scared he'll be disgusted by me. He wouldn't say it to my face because he knows how insecure I am about my body but I don't want to tell him and I'm so scared I don't want to lose him
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

No, you’re wrong. Large labia really do exist in porn - This link has a collection of Large Labia Project blog posts to show that large labia do actually exist in mainstream pornography, in spite of the “tiny pink porn pussy” mythology that exists. With the exception of some airbrushed softcore publications, large labia are just as likely to be found on porn actresses and models as they are in the wider population of people who have a vulva.

You should be asking yourself why you’re basing your self-esteem and self-image on what someone else thinks. Why is their opinion worth more than yours? If he’s disgusted by any part of your body then he’s a worthless turd and you can do better. You aren’t a vagina on legs. You’re a complex human being. Life is full of risks, and so are relationships. There’s always a risk that the person you’re with is a dick, and you have to trust your judgement. But if you’re this uncertain, and this scared about what he’ll think, then I question whether you really are ready for sex, and if he is right for you (for now).

Emma

Email Submission: Dear Emma, I’m turning to your blog, because no other website, blog or forum on the internet can help. When I ask around on the internet, it seems like nobody understands what a large clithood is. I hate my large hood, it looks ugly and no matter how hard me or my boyfriend try, I can’t have an orgasm. I blame all the extra skin. I feel like I’m the only girl in the world with this problem, because I know my friends don’t have this problem, the exes of my boyfriend didn’t have this and even my sisters and mother don’t have this. It makes me so angry and I feel so lonely. I’m 19 years old.


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In my opinion your clitoral hood looks fine, attractive, totally normal, and not particularly large.

A high percentage of people with a vulva have difficulty having an orgasm, and sadly about 10% never orgasm. You’re far from being alone. It’s possible your clit hood plays a role in your anorgasmia, as could your current mental state, stress, medication etc. There are lots of advice websites about this you can refer to. I recommend that you visit www.dodsonandross.com for advice on masturbation and orgasm, which may also help. You may also benefit from visiting your doctor, and/or sex therapist.

Emma

Email Submission: Still love the blog! Btw to me it’s actually kind of nice to be reblogged by porno blogs because usually I would think that nobody would find my Labias sexually attractive. But I understand that’s not what you want for your blog and other submitters probably feel the same. Just my opinion!

Email Submission: I’m 28, have had 1 baby who is now 26 months, and am 6 months pregnant with the next.

During early puberty, my mom took me to her gynecologist to get my labia checked. She was afraid I had hurt myself and that’s why they looked they way they do. Before that I hadn’t thought anything about it.

He offered to “fix” them whenever I had a baby.

When I delivered my daughter, a doctor I had never met before was on call. I ended up with a lot of stitches, but I was terrified that he had somehow thought they had torn more and stitched them where it didn’t belong!

Since I am pregnant again, they have gotten larger and I have to wear panties to keep them from getting pinched in my pants when I walk. 

Like ears, nose etc. they are mine alone, and I accept them. I do think they’re ugly, but my husband loves them, so it’s ok. Accept yourselves, ladies, God made us exactly how we are with a purpose!

largelabiaproject:

I sadly need to downgrade the Large Labia Project

I had planned to reduce my hours at my full time job and devote more time to the Large Labia Project, and my other body positive blog, www.ourbreasts.org. To do that I needed your financial support to help at least partially fund the hours I’d be losing by going part-time. I needed your help so I could help you.

I asked for donations through GoFundMe, my thinking being that with the large number of legitimate followers I had I’d be able to raise enough funds. But that didn’t happen. I appreciate that many people aren’t in a position to contribute.

A significant amount of my time is taken answering “asks” and responding to emails, private messages and submissions. I will no longer be answering those questions. I know this is a really important part of the blog and it kills me to do it, but I just do not have the time to research and reply to them. I will however soon be publishing an extensive FAQ, and adding tags for all previous Q&A “asks”.

From now on I will now only be posting text and photo submissions that are sent in through the site or by email.

The three surveys that are currently running will be published soon - thanks to everyone who participated.

I deeply regret that I won’t be able to provide the level of personal responses that I have up until now.

If you want to help in a final effort to raise some funds, then please donate through my GoFundMe account, or by clicking the orange Paypal button in my blog’s sidebar.

Emma

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
On that last submission posted-- my labia are exactly the same! Love your vulva!
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:
Asker Anonymous Asks:
my vulva is much stranger than anyone else's I feel. one of my labia minora is tiny, like doesn't pull out and is what I wish both of them were. my left lip though is long and thicker and protruding. I would be okay of both of them looked like the bigger one, or the smaller one. I just wish they weren't so vastly different :(
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:
Asker Anonymous Asks:
How do I submit from my iPhone
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

It’s easiest to just email submissions to largelabiaproject@gmail.com

I recently conducted a survey to see whether having or removing pubic hair had an impact on the pain and discomfort some people have with their labia minora, especially protruding labia minora.

While each person’s experience will be unique, based on their anatomy, skin sensitivity, and their wardrobe, the results show that if you shave or wax your labia majora you will be more likely to experience pain, chafing, irritation, pulling and discomfort with your labia minora.

If your labia hurt, my advice is don’t shave!

Emma

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
To the lady asking about bathing suit bottoms: have you tried heavily patterned designs? Usually the patterns/colours detract from the outlines of what's underneath. I also like thicker materials as opposed to thinner ones, however thicker materials may be more rigid and may cause discomfort with longer labia. They also may be more expensive. Otherwise, if I feel a bit self-conscious, I just put a pair of board shorts over the top. Hope this helps!
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

Email Submission: 19. Just remember to love yourself.

Every time I login now I block upwards of 75 undesirable followers and reblogs. It’s like trying to stop the tide coming in!

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I am very insecure about my labia, and am scared for my girlfriend to feel down there even though we've talked about it and she says it doesn't matter and she loves me. but I can't help it, I always thought there was something wrong with me, because one of my labia minora is pretty large while the right one is the exact opposite. the left one sticks out when my legs are together and when I walk it's sometimes uncomfortable. I'm only 15, but I'm seriously considering surgery. ah?¿
largelabiaproject largelabiaproject Said:

There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re perfectly normal. Asymmetrical labia are normal, and most people have one lip larger or different to the other. My labia minora sound like yours!

Surgery is such a bad idea.

There is a lot of information on this site that can help you, if you take the time to read it.

Labia Resources

Labia Facts

Posts tagged “Labiaplasty”

Posts tagged “Anatomy”

Posts tagged “Education”

Posts tagged “Research”

Labial discomfort can be alleviated by:

(a) Not shaving or waxing your pubic hair. Pubic hair acts like a lubricant.

(b) Wear underwear that is comfortable for you and experiment with different styles. If a particular pair if undies is usually comfortable, wear more of that type. Don’t wear lace. Avoid synthetic fibres.

(c) Avoid tight shorts of jeans, especially those with thick or hard seams that push into your crotch.

Emma

You don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.
Daniell Koepke (via psych-facts)

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